EwaMichalak, worlds biggest size selection of bras. They even make sizes if they don’t
have it. Their narrow wires are like an answer to so many busty womens
bra-prayers. Their uplifted, centered shape is one of the most coveted looks. So it is no wonder, that finding your right EM size is of high priority for many!
In the dawn of time, I ordered a
36H CH
Biszkopty bra from Ewa Michalak. I loved the lightly padded cup, the uplift, the shape… But then I noticed something:
What is that?! Well, I soon learned that it was the “Orange-in-a-glass” effect! I’ve talked about it earlier when I had my “
shape epiphany” (funny how I didn’t notice for so long, and now it seems so obvious… But I guess I needed to be closer to my size to have other fit issues than “too small”)
The bra is not big enough near the bottom to allow the boob, much like if you put an orange in a narrow glass: It’s not that the glass doesn’t have enough volume, it just the shape that isn’t compatible:
(Was it reasonable that I was super surprised when nothing bra related came up when I searched for “orange in a glass”, or do I just forget that others don’t have bra-related connotations to everything? I even had to take this picture myself!)
Since then, the CH has become too small on me (as I mentioned in
this post, my boobs have grown noticeably since last spring when my proper “bra journey” started), and the Orange in Glass has become ridiculous (because it is too small all over, it is even pulling more at the fabric near the bottom, making it flatter!)
(Difficult to photograph, as the best angle to see it, would mean the camera was
covering it, with my oh so stealthy pics-in-mirror-shots)
This would turn out to be quite the obstacle between me and Ewa Michalak.
I tried
some PL's in
36H which were definitely too small cup/too big band, and returned them for PL
Onyks and
Carmen in 34JJ. I have since referred to these as “disaster bras”. The obviously have similar problems, but
Carmen is made of a thinner, less stiff fabric, and it is therefore not as noticeable, so
Onyks will have to take all the rap for this mess:
Despite 34JJ being my “larger cup volume” (I estimate that I am a 34J-JJ, and sometimes a 32band), it did create a whole lot of “orange in a glass”. Well, no harm, I thought. Wrong!
^That is what eventually happened. The gap was not stable enough to support either boob or bra, and it was bound to collapse under the weight at some point. When it did so, it made some ugly folds in the bottom of the cup, making the bra cup sit lower than the wire itself, dragging my boobs down with it (droopy boobies!), distorting the entire fit horribly (as also discussed in the
Shape post)
Because of excessive wear of this bra, these folds have turned quite permanent, and therefore the problem just worsens, because now the folds have taken up more space than the gap originally did!
Here we have so pictures to prove the mess this bra is on me:
And here we see how that messes with the overall compatibility between me and the bra:
I saw another example of
orange-in-a-glass, and the same incompatibilities again in a CHP Brzoskwinka in 34HH, though had it been larger, I think it would overall be much better for my shape. (Took a
chance with a non-returnable order, just to try it out) (Only took one
side-shot before I put it up for sale, and the picture was super blurry, so you’ll
have to take my word for it ;) )
I discussed this on
Bratabase, and both me and
MilkAndHoney compared which styles,
CH,
CHP or
PL we found the most bottom shallow. I felt like the PL was the most bottom-shallow, and CHP had the most volume, but she felt that CHP was the most shallow, and CH was the deepest! Hmm! I had already sold my CHP at this point, but she took a look at the bras, and concluded that *actually* CH goes out in the deepest angle from the wire, and PL the most shallow. So we concluded that whether the cup is too small at the bottom, can come as a result of different things in the overall compatibility for example, the width of the bra overall, the width of the bottom if the wire etc. So many factors! It is not too difficult to see that you can't just pick bras of the rack and expect them to fit!
But, what to do when a bra is not compatible with your shape? You size up!
Now, I do think that this is technically too big, and some
fitting issues associated with that comes into play: For example, it covers a lot of my armpit too (which is often the result of too big cup with too tight straps), and it is fuller coverage than I think was intended (I don’t mind though! My soft-ish boobs would appreciate the higher center gore promised to come in a future style, too!), and there can be slight gaping unless I am 100% scooped! But, what makes me confident that this is more like my EM size, rather than a smaller one, is the fact that I STILL get a bit of orange-in-glass:
But, I am quite happy with this bra! I am glad I have found something from EM that really does work for me, and I will continue to fine-tune my fit, because I really appreciate their shape, and I applaud EM for accommodating so many hard-to-get sizes!
So, for me, EM is a really, really tricky business! But I feel like it is such
a must have bra! When ever I’ve been wearing one, even my disaster bras, I get
sort of disappointed by the shape of most other bras: I would do anything for
that centered look, which so far I’ve found only EM to give!
On an unrelated note, I AM SELLING BRAS at Bratabase!!